waiting in line / waiting for a bus / waiting at the airport departure lounge / waiting for a friend / lady-in-waiting / waiting room
All these Waitings carry different states of emotions, depending on the circumstances & expectations. If you are like me, you would find most of these challenging as I am by nature impatient and want things done expediently.
In this year of craziness, with the pandemic, politics, race issues raging around us, I have had to consider how I want to spend each day. Do I wait in frustration for things to go back to normal? do I allow the anxieties to overtake my thoughts and behaviour? do I despair for lost opportunities? or am I able to take each day as a gift to do a little better?

As we light the first candle on the Advent wreath, I think of the Hope that the Christ-child brings to a hurting world.
Younger Daughter practicing her match-lighting.
During Advent, we wait in joy, in hope, and in anticipation for the wonderful event we are about to experience—the feast of Christmas, the coming of Christ into our lives in new ways, the return of Christ in glory at the end of time. As the Church, we wait during Advent and look forward to celebrating the fact that God loves us so much that he sent his Son into the world to save us. This waiting is far from empty; rather, it is full of the hope that God promises us as we prepare for Christ in the feast of Christmas.
D Todd Williamson, Advent Waiting, Loyola Press

Cinnamon Swirl Muffin (BakeFromScratch) Peanut brittle with a touch of isomalt & glucose First batch of Stollen A new flour: sprouted ragi (finger millet) Sticky Buns!

How has your November been? What are you hoping for in December?
This post is my contribution to The Changing Seasons hosted by Su at zimmerbitch.
This is a lovely thoughtful post Ju-Lyn. I think gardening has taught me at least a little patience. Wishing you a peaceful and joyous Advent.
And as always, your food look soooooo good.
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November was a nail-biter here on a number of fronts. During December I hope to catch up on at least a few things, and may January find us all in a better new year. 🙂
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Yes!
Here’s wishing & hoping for a good start to the year!
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Hear, hear, Lavinia! Also, lovely piece on waiting.
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Thanks for popping in for a visit, Laurie! Always good to hear from you!
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My pleasure!
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You’re got the right attitude. ❤ And I agree, it's time to shift our anxious waiting mindset to embracing the present. If you can't beat 'em, join 'em?
Happy December!
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Absolutely, Lani! Thanks for your encouragement, and may it be a good month for you too!
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I didn’t know that you celebrated Advent in Singapore, Ju-Lyn. Or is it just a small minority. I always lament that it is too hot here for lighting candles. I love the Advent tradition. It is celebrated in a big way in Scandinavia. OUr kids used to get presents each weekend through Advent. In Scandinavia, kids get a small gift every day in Advent until Christmas Eve.
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Advent is a season that is celebrated in a big way in the Catholic community.
It is interesting that weather plays such a huge part in how we celebrate. We are typically in London every other Christmas season (not this year, unfortunately, although we are due for a visit), and we get to enjoy a different version of traditions.
When the kids were younger, Advent calendars were a big thing – a gift a day was rather exciting!
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Advent is such fun when the children are young.
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I find it strange to light candles on bright evenings compared to those dark evenings in Denmark. Lovely post and yes, we lit our candle too.
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Weather has so much to do with how our traditions are celebrated! When we are in London for the winter, we were always home by 4 in the afternoon, ready for our evening’s activities. Whereas, here in Singapore, we are waiting for the sun to set (even at 7pm) so that it is cool enough to talk a walk.
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It looks like you have made time for creativity and kindness, Ju-Lyn. That makes for a very good month. I hope your December is equally joyful.
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Thank you …. and may your December be blessed as well!
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Happy Advent to you, too!
And p.s. I’m also impatient.
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Thank you for owning the camaraderie – it is comforting to feel understood!
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I got you, PP! 🙂
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